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Positive parenting and positive discipline support for parents and school communities.

With the science of brain development and the Montessori method in mind.

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My approach

A child’s autonomy, self-discipline, self-regulation, and collaboration are skills that develop gradually, not challenges that can be quickly “fixed” by simply following the steps from a social media post or a quick in-service training. No hacks or quick strategies will work unless you have a clear understanding of the child’s brain development, and learn how to navigate discipline as a life-long relationship of collaboration and mutual respect, guiding their journey as a prepared leader.

My work with families and caregiver communities is informed by my graduate training in Clinical Psychology and almost a decade of experience supporting children and families using evidenced-based approaches as a licensed psychotherapist and pediatric psychosocial researcher.

My goal is not to just pass on a couple of parenting strategies for a specific challenge but to nurture a research-informed mindset that supports our journey with the young child, and our continued learning beyond our work together. Informed not just by my expertise and experience, but by a personalized approach that considers the unique family, cultural, and school values.

How Montessori fits into Parenting and Emotional Development

Contemporary child development research continuously sheds scientific light on many of the principles Dr. Maria Montessori established over 100 years ago to nurture a child’s self-esteem, confidence, internal motivation, and joy for participation in their environment and culture.

As a behavioral health professional, I consider the Montessori approach a valuable concrete method with powerful tools to bring healthy emotional development into your home—not with specific toys, shelves, or materials, but through awareness of yourself as the most important element in the home to support healthy emotional development. A former Montessori student myself, I now integrate this philosophy and approach as a parent and have obtained formal certification from the Prepared Montessorian Institute for implementing the Montessori philosophy in the home, along with a certification as a Positive Discipline educator.

Caregivers and educators often know that a child will gradually learn how to walk, talk, eat, learn to use the restroom, and more—there is no rushing those steps which the child is following through a unique path. Emotional development is no different, but it challenges us in unique ways as it triggers or interferes with specific aspects of the adult’s life. I incorporate Montessori principles into all my services and learning events, guiding adults through positive discipline and an evidence-based positive parenting approach that considers the prepared adult, the prepared environment, and the child as a capable learner in the process—yes, even when it comes to those tricky moments filled with big emotions and challenging behavior.

What caregivers and educators are saying…

  • Blanca really help me understand the uniqueness of my child and how I can help her be all she is and thrive in the most respectful, positive and loving way. Blanca Listened to me, she guided me, she was so kind, her advise and words always came from love and never judgement. Blanca was a blessing for me and my family.

    Ana M Amortegui, Los Angeles, CA Director of Photography, Movie industry

  • A one-on-one consultation with Blanca really helped me to think objectively and revisit my action plan to address his behaviour. As a Montessori educator, I appreciated her child-centred focus and respectful approach. Having the ability to read notes after our session was very useful, particularly when sharing information with my partner.

    Parent and Montessori Guide

  • Parent experience is so much more than keeping parents informed on their child's school day--it's solidifying a meaningful partnership from school to home. Blanca's on-site parent coaching was a fantastic way to foster stronger community ties and ensure our parents feel holistically supported. We are grateful for her expertise and partnership!

    Jenna Wawrzyniec, Parent Experience + School Content Manager - N4 Montessori Academy

  • I recommend Blanca 100%! I trust Blanca's advice and guidance, she's very knowledgeable and experienced and truly tailors strategies to your own child's needs and age. She takes time to listen, checks in, providing background so you can understand what is happening in your child's mind/behavior/development journey in order to better understand them and help them grow in a positive, respectful and loving way. Can't say enough great things about her

    Adriana P. - Parent

  • La asesoría con Blanca ha sido de grandísima ayuda para nosotros. Blanca nos explicó lo que ocurre a nivel cerebral y nos ayudó a entender el porqué de ciertos comportamientos y eso al lado de las estrategias prácticas que nos dio en casa ha sido un antes y un después. Gracias Blanca por tu trabajo. Siempre volveremos a ti.

    Rebecca I. - Mamá de dos niños

  • I gained so much clarity & feedback regarding my parenting struggle. After our consultation Blanca also sent notes from our conversation & sent resources that she recommended, which was so appreciated and helpful! She is very knowledgeable, validates and empathizes with your experience. I would absolutely recommend setting up an appointment with her.

    Parent

  • Blanca helped us validate the strategies using to navigate a shift in our 3 year old’s behavior and gave us practical tweaks to what we were doing to help us with what we were struggling with. What we liked the most is that her recommendations were practical and easy to incorporate to our daily rhythm.

    Parent

  • It was very helpful to focus on one or two areas that we are struggling with right now. The feedback was supportive and reassuring, but also informative as far as next steps.

    Rosanna McCormick - Parent

  • A single parenting consultation helped me gain insight into the dynamics of my relationship with my daughter. Blanca gave me a different perspective I hadn't considered. Her advice has helped a lot and I'm being more patient with my child.

    Parent of a 3 year old.